Its not that , you have an opportunity to always react worse at times in life . But the right thing is , you have got an opportunity to know , how you reject that . Its very fair that , you are tried at times by any forms of nature (human,friend, enemy , pet , anything even materials that count ) , the thing is , by the way of time, you get to act like a very matured fellow patting your own backs , saying , you are more enough to behave , the way which is better .
Once i remember , what Sri Sri Ravishankar of art of living said , how you react , when someone scolds or discomforts you ?
He replied , very politely that , What if , someone coming to your home , offer a bag of fruits as a token of courtesy and you smile-fully reject it .
The group echoed that , it simply goes to the person who bought it .
Likewise, just smile and dont respond to that . It simply goes back to the receiver !!
Finally , thats the art of living !!